We recently hosted Harlie’s first birthday party. As my friends have said…it was a pintrest party. I really wanted to have fun with the day and be creative. We had a turquoise and red theme. Beyond our fun favors, I made confetti chocolate popcorn, party hair bows for all the girls, and many decorations! We even had a fun ball pit for all of the kids who came! It was a hit. I’d love to share with everyone some of the fun crafts I make over the year. So if you want to know more about anything you see, let me know!
Growing up my mom wasn’t the typical “farm wife” and my dad wasn’t the typical farmer. They are both well educated and they came into farming in their 30s after falling in love with sheep. We had over 100 acres and even more sheep over the years. And while I grew up on a farm, my example of a “farm wife” was an empowered woman who also held a very good job off the farm (as well as a dad working off the farm).
Now in my 30s I find myself married to a farmer who grew up with traditional “farm wives” all around him. I struggle knowing that for him I am not going to be that woman who is there every day to keep his house clean and three meals a day on the table. I’m going to make frozen food, get takeout, and hire a cleaning lady. I cherish my time on the farm, but when I’m home and not at work I want to be farming or with my family, not being the 30’s model of a perfect wife. I remind him when he looks at me with that look of “my mom used to do it” that he knew who and what he was marrying. I am more than happy to take him food in the fields and help with his laundry, but I cherish my job off the farm as well and my world doesn’t revolve around being his wife. Maybe I get this from growing up with a very liberal woman as a role model. As I think of what I want my daughter to be in the future, I hope she learns to be independent and a strong woman with the values of a farm girl, and a woman who can take care of her husband (or wife if she so chooses) and her family as good as I do.
In our world of constant communication I wonder some days if I’m “connected” enough. I like to think of myself as a “techie” as I tend to be an innovator when it comes to new technology. I used many social media tools long before others, and I even joined blogging in the early 2000s when it was still new. But as busy as I am on the farm and at work it is hard to keep things up online. But recently I find myself wanting to get back into using some of the tools more often. Specifically, I miss blogging. I’ve had several blogs with my last being Here. But it is time for me to focus more on what my world is not just what my work world is. So welcome to my thoughts, my farm, my research, my life. I hope you enjoy my rants and my projects.
I love to check out the images of the week on MSNBC.com every once in a while, and was amazed at what I found today. The amount of ag literacy in America is depressing. If anyone can get it right, I’d hope it would be media. But if they are getting it wrong how can we expect general citizens too. I have been working with several of my students looking at portrayals of ag online, especially related to groups against ag. It is a never ending battle, but one we must win. I’m no animal science expert, but I did grow up on a sheep farm. I KNOW this is no goat! Reuters get it right please!
Ok I know blogging two seconds apart isn’t the point. But I just wanted to share something positive after my last post. I work a ton, and in my husband’s words “You are at work with your students more than you are at home.” I wonder some days if people I do stuff for realize what I sacrifice for them. But in the last week I have gotten notes from two of my recent graduates thanking me for all I did for them. Those notes make it worth it, they make the bad comments from frustrated students ok. Just a reminder to thank the people in your life who help you and mean something to you. You don’t realize how much that means to them.